18 Activities for Christmas

Looking for ideas for things to do with your family or a group of friends? Look no further.
Here are 18 activities to help you have fun, create memories, and bless others.
(Download the list here.)

 

1. Participate in a daily Bible Reading.

The most important thing you can do this Christmas is to keep your focus on Jesus during the busy holiday season. To help you do that, we created 25 Bible Readings for Christmas. If you haven’t started the readings yet, don’t worry. You can start any time by starting on the reading for today or by reading more than one each day until you are caught up. The important thing is to spend time in God’s Word refocusing your attention on Jesus.

 

2. Work Christmas puzzles.

One of my fondest memories from childhood comes from the inevitable snow day—a day during our Midwest winter when school closed because of vast amounts of snow. Every year on that first snow day, my mom would magically produce a brand new jigsaw puzzle. Then she would join my sisters and me for an afternoon with that puzzle. I instituted the same tradition with my children.

Our tradition has a little different twist than the one my mom began. Somewhere along the line, my family acquired a large snowman shaped jigsaw puzzle. Within the body of that snowman is a scene full of woodland animals in caps, coats, scarves, and mittens. Those appropriately clad animals are enjoying a snow day complete with sledding, skiing, skating, and snowball fights. This puzzle even has theme-shaped pieces like candy canes, Christmas trees, and snowmen. It has become a tradition in our house to work that puzzle every winter, usually on a snowy day.

This season, find a Christmas-themed jigsaw and spend an evening (or whole day) putting it together with your family or a group of friends. If you are not into jigsaw puzzles, find some puzzles to download. The internet is full of sites with crosswords, word searches, and other puzzles. You can find some here (free membership required) and here and here. For more fun add some Mad Libs like these. Of course, it will increase the fun if you include hot chocolate and popcorn, order pizza or put soup (like one of these) in the crock-pot early in the day!

 

3. Attend a Christmas program.

There always seems to be some program, or multiple programs, we have to attend because some family member is involved. Those are a special part of your family’s life and well worth your time. However, why not attend a Christmas program that no one you know is in? It could be a new holiday movie at the theater, a musical (Elf is playing close to us this season), The Nutcracker, or a special production at a local church. Attending a Christmas program when no one in your family is involved allows every member of the family or you and a group of friends to relax and enjoy the shared experience. Consider getting dressed up and going out for dinner, too.

 

4. Act out the Christmas story.

Bringing the Christmas story to life is a wonderful way to focus your collective attention on the reason we celebrate this season. This can be as simple or complicated as you desire. Unless you are really into memory work, everyone can read their part directly from the Bible (Suggested scenes: Luke 1:5-25, Luke 1:26-38, Matthew 1:18-25, Luke 1:39-56, Luke 1:57-89, Luke 2:1-21, Luke 2:22-40). Assign parts (including a narrator), assemble costumes and props, grab your Bibles, and start a new tradition.

Consider inviting another family or a group of special friends to join you and prepare a simple meal to kick off your evening. A simple Israeli meal like Mary and Joseph would have eaten might include: lentil stew (like ours), yogurt, pitas, almonds, and dates. Although it is doubtful Mary and Joseph had dessert, if you must include it, try finding baklava or making your own (recipe here and here).

 

5. Make Christmas ornaments.

I always enjoyed making ornaments. They were a fun way to connect with my children or with other ladies. When they were made with my children, they were also something to pass on as they married and needed ornaments for their first Christmas tree. You can find options for all skill levels here and here. Consider having a snack that won’t make fingers messy, like Grinch Kabobs or  Chocolate Rice Krispie Gingerbread Men Pops or substitute Popsicle sticks for the peppermint sticks in this brownie Christmas tree recipe.

 

6. Make Christmas decorating a group event.

Decorate your home and tree with the help of others. For years I assembled our artificial tree, strung the lights and tinsel, hung the fragile ornaments, and put out all the household decorations (the way I wanted them) before having my kids hang decorations on the bottom half of the tree. Then I would go around and move things until the tree looked the way I wanted it to.

One year I realized my children were not enjoying the experience and had no reason to want to help. Their efforts were not appreciated because I wanted to have the perfect tree. Ever since that realization, we assemble the tree together, and they put the household decorations out. Is it the way I want it to be? Technically, no. But doing it together while playing Christmas music and sipping egg nog has brought many more happy memories than any perfectly decorated tree or home ever could.

Enjoy your family as you transform your home into a Christmas scene. While you are at it, add a new tradition to the experience, i.e. drink eggnog or hot chocolate and listen to Christmas music while decorating (check out 21 Things to Watch, Listen, & Read Your Way To Christmas).

If you find yourself alone this holiday season, invite some friends or nieces and nephews over to decorate together. Include time for everyone to make an ornament to take with them. Have a potluck or order take-out and enjoy the eggnog or hot chocolate mentioned above. Share the joy of the season with someone else.

 

7. Make a nativity set.

Making a nativity set helps to focus attention on the Christ child while creating a keepsake or gift. Make these edible manger treats to enjoy before diving into one of these nativity scene projects.

 

8. Buy socks and deliver them to homeless people or a shelter.

Here is a wonderful article on why you should consider giving socks to the homeless, what type to give, and how to give. If you choose to approach a homeless person on the street, please be smart and safe. This does not mean homeless people are dangerous, but I do recognize that the areas where you will find them may not be. Do NOT go alone. If you are not comfortable meeting strangers like this, don’t let that stop you from giving! You can still buy those precious socks and donate them to your local homeless shelter. Don’t forget to ask if you can pray with them.

 

9. Take a drive and look at Christmas lights.

Pack the family or some of your friends in the car and start driving around and looking at Christmas lights. See if you can find a living nativity in your area and finish with that. While driving around, discuss how you can each be a light for Jesus during the next year. Round out the evening by stopping for dessert or a late dinner. Or, have Crock Pot Apple Cider and popcorn waiting when you get home.

Consider delivering thank you notes to homes that display a nativity. If you do, have everyone sign it. (Remember to hang it on a door or mailbox. It is illegal to put anything in a mailbox that hasn’t been sent via USPS.)

 

10. Read a book.

Spend an evening reading Christmas books with family or friends. Check here for Children’s picture book ideas or here for adult reading or Bev’s list in 21 Things to Watch, Listen, & Read Your Way to Christmas. Serve your favorite snack while everyone is listening or try this one for Honey Almond Snack Mix.

 

Photo by Nathan Lemon on Unsplash
11. Pack a gift box for a deployed service member.

Let our dedicated military know you are thinking about them as they serve our country far from home this holiday season (or any time) by sending a care package. There are many organizations you can use to do this. If you would like to explore this and other ways to support our military, check out organizations like Soldiers Angels and Operation We Are Here or this list of programs. Consider blessing a military family in some way this season. Don’t worry if your gift doesn’t make it in time for Christmas. It will be appreciated whenever it arrives.

 

12. Decorate an outdoor tree.

Gather the family or some friends and make animal-friendly ornaments for an outdoor Christmas tree. Find ideas for your wildlife ornaments here, here, and here. Make two batches of popcorn. One to eat. The second without salt or butter to make popcorn strings for the tree. Listen to Christmas music while you work.

 

13. Have a Dollar Store Christmas.

One year when money was especially tight, we gave everyone the assignment of finding a Christmas gift for everyone else. There were just 2 requirements: 1. each gift must cost less than $2, and 2. when the gifts were opened, the giver had to tell why they chose that particular item. Then, we all wrapped our gifts. On Christmas day each gift was opened, and the giver told their reason for the gift.

One of the gifts I received was a bag of clothespins. Not an especially thrilling gift, I admit, but why my son chose that gift (and the note he included) made them special. I always called the pile of laundry on my bed Mount Never-rest (because with 6 people in the house, it was always there waiting to be conquered). The clothespins made him think about all the fun we had (reading books or just talking) while working our way through that pile of laundry. Hearing that was a wonderful gift!

So pick a day to have your Dollar Store Christmas. Drive everyone to the local dollar store (or thrift shop) and have everyone buy a gift for every member of the family or group. Set a limit of $2 per gift. When you get home, wrap the gifts. Order pizza or have a “dollar” meal of mac and cheese (or pull out your crock-pot to try this recipe). Then, sit by the tree and unwrap the dollar store finds. Allow plenty of time for everyone to explain why they chose each gift.

 

14. Make, sign, and address Christmas cards or create a family newsletter.

If you choose to do this, make sure it is a family project and not just your attempt to create the perfect card with a picture of the perfect family on the front. While the final result might indeed look perfect, remember that it is about the shared experience, not the product. Despite the childish scrawl and smudges, let each person sign their own name. Yes, even if there are dozens of cards.

If your children are older, assign everyone the task of writing a paragraph about their year so you can assemble a newsletter. Have them each draw a picture to be included as clip art. The important thing is to have fun and make positive memories.

If you are on your own this year, host a Christmas card party. Invite some friends over and create beautiful cards to send to everyone on your list. Have everyone bring items to use for the cards and their favorite salad or snack to share.

For some card making ideas to get you started, try these or these. Or check out this idea for creating a card making station.

 

15. Have a Christmas movie night.

Have a Christmas movie night with Peppermint Popcorn using this recipe or this one. Find a movie from this list or 21 Things to Watch, Listen, & Read Your Way To Christmas.

 

16. Make Christmas cookies.

My daughter and daughters-in-law love to get together to bake and decorate Christmas sugar cookies. My daughter has also hosted a cookie baking day for her friends. My son’s family creates a gingerbread village. If you enjoy baking and decorating traditional Christmas cookies this is a great way to connect with family or friends. Here are some recipes to try.

Try setting up a place to decorate containers to put the finished cookies in. Deliver them as a family or group. (Include an invitation to your church’s Christmas services.)

 

17. Do a Christmas photo or art challenge.

Try our 12 Days of Christmas Photo Challenge or turn the list into an art challenge. If you have older children, give them 2 weeks to take (or create) pictures from the list. Don’t forget to take pictures yourself, and remind everyone a few times during the week. If you have younger children (or just want this to be a family activity), spend a day finding items on the list. Then, let everyone take a picture of it however they want to (yes, a close up is okay). Pick a day to share your pictures while sipping one of these drinks or sharing one of these dips.

 

18. Bless someone.

Give a homeless person a cookie, toiletries, and a small gift card for a place to eat. Take a meal to a shut-in or a family who needs it (look here for ideas). Purchase gift cards to a restaurant or gas station as a gift for someone going through a health crisis. Buy, wrap, and deliver gifts to a family who otherwise would not get anything. Don’t forget to pray with the person who receives your gift.

 

Share it with us!

We would love to hear from you. Let us know what your favorite Christmas activities are in the comments below. Or share your selfies from the 18 activities above!

Check out the rest of our Countdown to Christmas posts here.

25 Bible Readings for Christmas

Christmas is coming. Had you noticed?

We are fond of saying that Jesus is the reason for the season, but do we live each day as if that were true?

During the bustle and stress of the holiday season, we want to encourage you to keep first things first. To help you do that, we have created 25 Bible Readings for Christmas.

Use these Bible readings as your own personal daily reminders or as part of a family time. These readings will only take a few minutes each day, but they will help you focus on the Reason for the season. 

Just choose your preferred format from the 3 options below, download, and start reading. (Increase your fun by using Sybil MacBeth’s Advent downloads with the 25 Bible Readings and color the verses!)

Enjoy!

 

25 Bible Readings for Christmas (calendar version)

25 Bible Readings for Christmas (infographic)

25 Bible Readings for Christmas (list)

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Advent:
Preparation for Christmas & the Daily Journey with God

I became aware of Sybil MacBeth’s work when I began researching topics for Project Prayer. She has a wonderful website called Praying in Color. I wanted to include her Praying in Color Advent ideas and handouts with you, so I reached out to her. As we wrap up Project Prayer and begin to look forward to Christmas, today’s Postcard was the logical place to have Sybil share with you. Please welcome guest blogger Sybil MacBeth.

Advent
Preparation for Christmas
& the Daily Journey with God

Advent is my favorite season of the year. As the world outside my house turns dark and cold in the northern hemisphere, my wistful reaction is to turn inward. I curl up in a comfortable chair, light candles, drink hot tea, and become nostalgic and contemplative. In many ways this is exactly what Advent is about. The word advent means “coming.”  During the four weeks before Christmas, we remember the coming of Jesus into the world over two thousand years ago and anticipate the coming of Jesus again at the end of history. But Advent is not just about the coming of Jesus in the distant past and in the far future, it is about his coming into our lives today, tomorrow, and every day. A voice of one calling: “In the wilderness prepare the way for the LORD; make straight in the desert a highway for our God,” says the prophet Isaiah. Advent is the time we burrow down and prepare the soil of our minds and hearts to receive Jesus anew at Christmas. It is a gestation time and the dress rehearsal for the way to live every day of the year.

Wake up. Watch. Hope. Prepare. Listen. Repent. Pay attention. Wait. These stirring and urgent verbs are the language of Advent, but they are also the daily, all-year-round vocabulary of Christians. Christians are Advent people. We do not just celebrate the past and wait for the final fulfillment of God’s kingdom in the future. We are active and incremental “waiters.” As a flesh-and-blood Savior, Jesus invites and commissions us to put our feet on the ground and join him in God’s kingdom-building pilgrimage on earth. Advent helps to prepare us for this seemingly endless and difficult work. It is no accident that Advent is the beginning of the Christian year. It is the preparation for Christmas but it is also our recommitment to the one-day-at-a time journey with Jesus and God for another year. Our Advent practices, reflection, Scripture study, and prayer hone and sharpen our spiritual tools as ready pilgrims on a 365-day mission with God.

Here are a few of my favorite Advent practices and activities. They help me to develop the daily discipline I need to be a pilgrim all year long. It is so tempting to jump right into Christmas mode as soon as Thanksgiving is over. These activities invite me to slow down and hold back– just a little.

Advent Calendars

My all-time favorite practice is creating an Advent calendar. I love the Advent calendar because it marks my one-day-at-a time walk with God. You can use any calendar template for December but I have created several free templates to download available from my website: prayingincolor.com. You can also make your own calendar templates. There are many ways to use them, but here are two ways:

1) Read a daily Scripture passage or one of the many wonderful devotionals available for Advent. Each day choose an Advent word to write in the space. Doodle around the word. Add color with markers or pencils. Ponder the word, listen to it, and ask God to speak to you through this word. Sit with it in silence.

2) Pray for a person each day. Write the name. Draw around it and add color. Use words for your prayers if you want, but think of each stroke of the pen or marker as a wordless prayer.  Release the person into God’s care and sit with them in silence.

I think of this calendar as a “countup” to Christmas and not a “countdown.” At the end of Advent you will have a colorful dictionary of Advent words or a beautiful visual prayer list.

Below is an example of last year’s calendar. I prayed a different Advent word each day.

Here are the six templates for Advent 2018.  You can download them for free from my Handouts Page. This year the season is only twenty-three days long and starts on December 2.

 

Color—Purple or Blue

Purple or blue are the colors of Advent. Whether you are a purple or blue Advent devotee, splash your house or apartment with Advent color. For me, a string of purple lights, a purple paper chain, or a purple ribbon on a wreath acts as a STOP sign. “Wait; it is not yet Christmas. Slow down. Enjoy this time of preparation.”

Plants and Bulbs

To teach children (and adults) about watching and waiting–but not waiting in vain—plant paperwhite narcissus or amaryllis bulbs at the beginning of Advent. Fill a clear container with potting soil or stones. A clear container makes the growth of the roots visible. Plant the bulb in the soil or stones with about half of the bulb showing above the surface. Place the bulbs in a warm spot near a window. Watch the daily, incremental growth of the plant. Daily watering can be the task of even a young child. Even as an adult, I never tire of watching the day-to-day progress of the green stalks and the ultimate flowering of the plant.

Quiet Corner

Create a place where people can go to be alone and quiet. A little table in a corner with a battery-operated votive candle, a few sprigs of greenery, a purple ribbon, and an old-fashioned three-minute sand- or salt-filled egg timer creates an enticing place for children and adults to be alone and quiet. Invite children to turn on the candle, turn over the egg timer, and sit in the mystery of dark and silence for three minutes.

Advent Tree or Bush

Go ahead and buy a Christmas tree during Advent but string purple, blue, or white lights on it. Use the tree as a large Advent calendar and pin an Advent word a day onto it. See if you can hold off on adding the Christmas ornaments until after December 20. Another option is to hang a long piece of string or ribbon on the wall and clothespin the words on it.

 

[From Bible Study Journey: I (Trisha) for one am going to try one of her Advent handouts this year. I just have to decide which one. What are you going to do? In the comments below, let us know if you try any of Sybil’s ideas. We would also love to hear how you celebrate Advent.]

 

Sybil MacBeth is the author of The Season of the Nativity: Confessions and Practices of an Advent, Christmas, and Epiphany Extremist and Praying in Color: Drawing a New Path to God. Sybil combines her lifelong love of prayer with her experience as a community college math professor to offer workshops on prayer for people with varied learning styles. For more ideas about Advent or praying in color, check out her blog on prayingincolor.com.

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Project Prayer
Giveaway Winners
& Wrap-Up

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&
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Project Prayer Wrap-Up

We have spent 10 weeks exploring prayer, covering a variety of topics from Why Pray to When God Told Me No. We were also honor by guest bloggers Julie Shirkey (Renewing the Mind through Prayer) and Lynn Cowell (3 Prayers for Keeping the Enemy Away). We explored 23 Prayer Principles from the Prayers of Jesus, how Jesus Taught Us to Pray, and so much more!

We also created over a dozen downloads for you to use, including the 30 Day Prayer Challenge Journal and Visual Prayer Starters.

You can access all the Project Prayer articles here and all the downloads here.

Although Project Prayer is officially over, prayer will still be the theme Friday when guest Sybil MacBeth shares how to pray in color during Advent and other ways to focus on Jesus during the hectic Christmas season.

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The Prayer of a Righteous Person

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. ∼James 5:16 (ESV)

PRAYER

What is prayer? Earlier in this passage in verse 14, when the elders pray for the person who is sick, the Greek word for pray is proseúxomai. It means “to exchange wishes… literally, to interact with the Lord by switching human wishes… for His wishes as He imparts faith.” (Bible Hub, HELPS Word-studiesWhere James says “the prayer of a righteous person” the Greek word for prayer is deésis which refers to a “heart-felt petition, arising out of deep personal need (sense of lack, want).” (Bible Hub, HELPS Word-studies)

Prayers spoken out of a deeply felt need are deésis. When we reach the point in our deésis where we can say in all honesty, “Not my will, but yours, be done, O LORD,” our prayers have become proseúxomai. My friend Carlyn exemplified this idea when she was battling the cancer that eventually took her life. Her heart-felt petition, or deésis, was for her cancer to go away, but she exchanged that wish for God’s wishes–she turned her deésis into proseúxomai when she accepted God’s will, even when she didn’t understand it. 

RIGHTEOUS PERSON

James tells us that these types of prayers, when made by a righteous person, are powerful. The Greek word, díkaios,  means “righteous, observing divine and human laws; one who is such as he ought to be” (Bible Hub, Thayer’s Greek Lexicon). If we have accepted Jesus Christ as our Savior, we are in a right relationship with God. We are what we “ought to be.” We have “become the righteousness of God.” (2 Corinthians 5:21) Being righteous means simply that we are walking in faith, and because we are walking in faith, it is reflected in how we live our lives. We are righteous because we are walking with Christ.

GREAT POWER

The Greek word translated power is from the root word ischuó. It “embodies strength that ‘gets into the fray’… engaging the resistance. For the believer,… [it] refers to the Lord strengthening them with combative, confrontive force to achieve all He gives faith for. That is, facing necessary resistance that brings what the Lord defines as success…” (Bible Hub, HELPS Word-studiesAll these prayers have the power–the strength–to enter (or remain in) the battle and to resist anything which stands against God.

Why are we given this kind of strength? In order to accomplish God’s will. The evil one will try to cause us to doubt. He will try to wear us down. But discussing our wishes with God, and accepting His wishes for us, will help us to resist those attacks and to stand firm in our faith until God brings about what He defines as success. 

AS IT IS WORKING

The final part of the verse is as it is working. This is the Greek word energeó which means “energize, working in a situation which brings it from one stage… to the next, like an electrical current energizing a wire, bringing it to a shining light bulb.” (Bible Hub, HELPS Word-studies) Prayer turns on the switch, so to speak, that allows the power to flow to the one who needs it. These prayers, or wishes, are working to move the situation to the next stage through God’s energizing power.

JAMES 5:16b PARAPHRASED

Now it’s time to put all that Greek together into a paraphrase of this verse: The heart-felt wishes of a person who is in a right relationship with God–who is walking with Christ and is willing to exchange their wishes for God’s–have a great quantity of strength to withstand resistance and to move the situation through God’s power to the next stage in God’s plan.

The heart-felt wishes of a person who is in a right relationship with God – who is walking with Christ and is willing to exchange their wishes for God’s – have a great quantity of strength to withstand resistance and to move the situation through God’s power to the next stage in God’s plan.

BE THAT PRAY-ER!

If you are walking with Christ, you are that righteous person. As you pray, make sure you are not only taking your wishes to God but also exchanging them for His will. Know that when you do, He will give you the strength to stand and to move through your current situation to the next stage in His plan.

[This post was adapted from Elijah: Lessons on God and Godly Living from One Flawed Human to Another.]

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Prayer Quotes

Today’s bonus is a wonderful graphic
filled with quotes on the subject of prayer.

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3 Prayers to Pray for Keeping the Enemy Away

I was honored to attend a breakout session conducted by Lynn Cowell at last year’s She Speaks conference. Shortly afterward I participated in the launch for her new study, Make Your Move: Finding Unshakable Confidence Despite Your Fears and Failures. Lynn is a gracious, godly author and speaker who’s love for women is obvious in every word she uses. She has graciously accepted my invitation to share ways we can pray for our children. Please welcome our guest, Lynn Cowell.

3 Prayers to Pray for Keeping the Enemy Away

by Lynn Cowell

“Lord, how did we get here?”

I know it isn’t good to ask God our Father “why” when we are praying, but as I prayed for my kids and their friends, I did wonder … how did we get here?

As I reflected on the pathway my family has been on, I saw one thing clearly: I had not been as clued in as I should have. 1 Peter 5:8 tells it this way, “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” (NIV) That someone is our children and the next generation of the Church.

I saw clearly: I hadn’t been alert; paying attention and being on the lookout for the enemy’s movement in our lives. Yes, I had been praying, but I wasn’t fully aware and attentive; wide-awake and keen. In fact, sometimes I had allowed fear to keep me from seeing, or at least admitting, what I didn’t want to see or know.

Let’s learn from my mistakes together and start here:

3 Prayers to Pray for Keeping the Enemy Away

1. See the enemy at work.

While Satan is not wiser than our Father, he does have a plan and that plan preys on the weaknesses of our children, especially when they are young and immature. Pray that you and those you love will spot his work and recognize his plans.

2 Corinthians 11:3, “But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.” (NIV)

2. Wisdom for a course of action.

Sometimes as moms and mentors, our place is to pray for our loved ones and trust God to do what only He can do, but it can also be our place to get involved. Pray for the wisdom to know what to do, when to do it and when to get out of the way.

James 1:5, “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” (NIV)

3. Strength so the enemy is defeated.

Our children do not have as much experience as we do in partnering with the Holy Spirit. Pray that they will cry out to God for the strength they need to choose Him every single day.

James 4:7, “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” (NIV)

Praying for our children doesn’t mean we have to be on our knees all day long, but it does mean that we need to be aware of what is taking place in the spiritual realm. Our children are growing every day, let’s pray that we will be growing in our walk with the Lord as well.

For more prayers to pray for your children, click here.

 

Lynn Cowell is a Proverbs 31 speaker and the author of several books, written for women of all ages. Her newest Bible study for women is Make Your Move: Finding Unshakable Confidence Despite Your Fears and Failures and for young girls, Brave Beauty: Finding the Fearless You. Lynn calls home North Carolina, where she and her husband, Greg and the occasional backyard deer are adjusting to life as empty nesters. Along with their three adult children, the Cowells love hiking, rafting and anything combining chocolate and peanut butter.

 

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Renewing the Mind Through Prayer

My friend (and fellow author), Julie K. Shirkey joins us for Project Prayer today to share her thoughts on Renewing the Mind Through Prayer. She would love to hear from you in the comments below. Visit julieshirkey.com/ to learn more about Julie’s ministry and to order her book, A Life in Christ: Seeking God’s Will.

Renewing the Mind Through Prayer

Julie K. Shirkey

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is — his good, pleasing and perfect will. ∼Romans 12:2 

What happens when you don’t pray? The world seeps in and takes control of your thoughts and life. You no longer think, act, or respond like Jesus. Words you never thought you would say become part of your vocabulary. Reading, watching and listening to those things that are not pleasing to God becomes a part of your new routine. Your life turns back to the sinful ways you were forgiven from. You lead a life walking away from the Savior instead of toward Him.

When you continue to neglect prayer, you become self-centered and selfish. Then, when you do pray and ask God for help, you don’t remember or care about the request of others because in your mind you are such a mess and need all of God’s attention for yourself. You begin to criticize everyone, from your family and friends to the stranger in line in front of you.

When you stop praying everything goes wrong and problems are exaggerated. You feel the weight of your problems on your shoulders and everyone you speak to feels it too. People will start to avoid you because you throw your burdens at them instead of listening or sharing your concerns with them. Instead of a sounding board, people become a dart board where you lash out and throw darts at them, thus running off those who care for you. People begin to keep you at a distance, the phone calls and texts become less and less until slowly, one by one, people are no longer a part of your life and you have no one to communicate with but God.

Does this sound like you? Maybe not right now, but at some point in your life you have been here, lonely with burdens, swimming with problems and no physical person to help you through. You walk around with a scowl instead of a smile on your face. There is no laughter, and happiness is only fleeting. And you wonder, how did you get here? How did your life get turned upside down? Then you realize you stopped praying and spending time with God. You left your first love.

One thing I have learned from my prayer life is God is much better at solving the world’s problems and the concern of others than I am or ever will be. I have to admit there are times my prayer life suffers. I become so burdened by life and others that my focus turns from what God can do, to what I can do. Then I spend all my strength and not God’s to fix everything.

You might think this won’t happen to me, I’m so tight with God, and I’m so in love with Jesus, I love to sit in the Holy Spirit’s presence. Right there is the reason your prayer life will suffer, and it will happen to you sometime. Why? Because of “you”. You get in the way. You start doing everything in your strength, by routine and one day out of nowhere something happens and your whole world changes and “you” don’t know what to do.

“How did this happen”, you ask? It could be anything, but usually it’s a lie from Satan. Maybe a prayer request wasn’t fulfilled the way you expected. Maybe something you should have prayed about and you didn’t pray about fell apart. Maybe you bartered with God and failed. God didn’t fail, but you failed at what you promised God. Mostly it’s anger or guilt. You are angry at God or you have some sort of guilt to work out. So you blame others for taking up your time, and you no longer have time to pray. You become a victim of circumstances. One time, and you don’t drop to your knees and pray, a new pattern for your day begins. Oh, I can pray about that later, then “BOOM”, your day gets away from you, problems and all. Or God prompts you to pray and you push that thought away, you will get to that later, but later you forget and God has moved on. What will be your wake up call to pray again? What does it take for a hardened heart to change? Until you become so overwhelmed by your circumstances and you can’t fix everything so you don’t do anything? Is that the answer? This is when you need God to renew your mind to be like Jesus.

Are you resentful about prayer? Has it become a chore instead of a joy? You are praying, but no one, including God is listening? You are beat down, frustrated, disappointed and don’t know where do you start? You take your mind off of you, and you place it on God.

How can you begin your routine to pray and sit quietly in God’s presence? You renew your mind by praising God, being thankful and grateful to God for all He has done for you. The best place to renew your mind is through praise. Praising God for just being God, praising God for Jesus, praising God for your life and praising God for your struggles which bring you closer to Him. You don’t want to praise God for your struggles? Do it anyway, no matter how hard it is, praise God anyway.

Renew your mind by thanking Him. But you say, “God hasn’t done anything for me lately”. Oh, but He has and He will again. Remember all God has done for you in the past, and start by thanking God for those things. If He healed you from an ailment, if He saved a family member from eternal death, if He unexpectedly provided a meal or finances right when you needed it, thank Him. Or you can start by thanking God for Jesus. Your very salvation is because of His sacrifice. Then renew your mind by being grateful for all God has done for you. Be grateful you live where you can openly praise God; be grateful for His grace and mercy, be grateful for those people He has put in your life to help you.

How else can you renew your mind? Through prayer. You need to get back to the basics in order to move forward. What are those basics? Getting away from those things which replaced your prayer time; TV, radio, social media, and people. Finding a quiet place and time to sit and not talk to God, but listen to Him. Stop taking on the cares and burdens of others, because helping others can cause you to neglect your prayer life. The problem is you cannot fix these things, only God can. But then you try and are disappointed when you fail. Better to pray for God to fix them than try to fix it without Him. Take your mind off of you and focus on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. He has given you an example of prayer to follow.

If you find yourself really desperate and lost on where to start again, pray the Lord’s Prayer. Break it down verse by verse or word by word. Study, mediate on what God’s Word says and you will again have the prayer life you have been missing and a renewed mind.

 

Julie and her husband Steve reside in Jacksonville, IL. They enjoy the outdoors, working on their cars and seeking and sharing Jesus Christ through their ministry. Julie is not only a Christian author, she is also an audio technician, is self taught in the art of stained glass, and enjoys building her own furniture. Steve is an over the road truck driver who he enjoys hunting, fishing, and drag racing. (And helping Julie move her big, heavy, homemade furniture!) Their goal is to reach the world for Christ by sharing their testimonies and God’s Word.

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